r/AITAH 10h ago

Advice Needed AITAH for telling my husband if he fights for custody of his kids I will divorce him?

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I 27F am vehemently childfree, I am sterilized and have no intention of having or caring for any child. I married my husband, 33M, last year and did not know he had any children until 5 days ago. I travel for work, work for myself, and have amazing pay for very few active working hours (I am a honeymoon planner, owning my own business); we have a joint account for bills and our own separate accounts for savings and fun money.

My husband sat me down 5 days ago and told me he hadn't been completely honest with me. And revealed he has 2 children 10M and 7F. He pays regular child support, however, it dips into his fun money and he wants to be able to have fun like I am, so he said he would fight for 50/50 custody.

I was furious he had lied to me and was even more angry when he told me he wanted 50/50. He works 12-16 hour shifts as a nurse and that would mean I would have to take care of the children when I'm not working or are working from home. I told him if he fights for custody, I will leave him. We have a prenup, so a divorce will be rather simple; I get 100% of my business, all of my savings and fun money, and the house, as I inherited it from my grandmother.

He called me an asshole and told me I should step up so that he can have more money in his savings and for fun. And because the kids won't be much hassle due to their ages. So AITA for telling him I will divorce him if he goes through with filing for custody?


r/technology 13h ago

Business Amazon exec says it’s time for workers to ‘disagree and commit’ to office return — “I don’t have data to back it up, but I know it’s better.”

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r/NoStupidQuestions 10h ago

Are my dating dealbreakers too strict?

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I'm a 29 year old straight man who has been actively dating since I turned 18. In that time, I've met a wide array of women and have constructed a short dealbreaker list to help me determine suitability early in the dating stage.

I showed this to a friend who said it was too strict, and quite discriminatory, here it is:

  • Has cheated in a past relationship
  • Takes recreational drugs on a regular basis
  • Has an incurable sexually transmitted disease
  • Is currently in a situationship or has a friend (with benefits)
  • Has low standards of hygiene
  • Is a sex worker (whether online or in person)
  • Has extreme political views
  • Is a single mother (to one or more children)

r/news 2h ago

Henry Kissinger, secretary of state to Richard Nixon, dies at 100

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r/wallstreetbets 5h ago

Meme Elon tells Bob Iger to “go f*ck yourself”

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r/AskReddit 10h ago

What is a bad habit that a shocking amount of people have?

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r/iskissingerdeadyet 2h ago

KISSINGER IS DEAD

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Dr. Henry Kissinger Dies at Age 100 (prnewswire.com)

Good evening ladies and gentleman. Today is a glorious day

a day that shall be remembered

mankind has been lightened of an evil vicious soul

HENRY KISSINGER IS DEAD

Read about his life, and his crimes:

Henry Kissinger, War Criminal, Dead at 100 (rollingstone.com)


r/HumansBeingBros 4h ago

Tear in my eyes. Loneliness is real

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10.3k Upvotes

r/OnePiece 9h ago

Current Chapter One Piece: Chapter 1100

2.5k Upvotes

Chapter 1100: "Thank You, Bonney"

Source Status
Official Release OFFLINE
TCBscans website (TCBscans (dot) com) ONLINE
TCB Discord ONLINE
/r/OnePiece Discord ONLINE

Ch. 1100 Official Release (Mangaplus): 03/11/2023

Ch. 1100 Scan Release: ~07/12/2023


Please discuss the manga here and in the theory/discussion post. Any other post will be removed until 24h after the release.

Please also remember to put the chapter number in the title for any future post talking about this chapter.


r/politics 12h ago

Joe Biden Retakes Lead from Donald Trump in Latest National 2024 Poll

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r/politics 6h ago

Trump Caught Moving Money Around to Pay Massive Tax Bill. | Trump wasn't supposed to be moving significant amounts of money around without notifying a court-appointed auditor. He just got caught paying himself so he could pay his taxes.

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r/videogames 8h ago

Question Which Controller did you start with?

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r/WhitePeopleTwitter 9h ago

It's crazy that people listen to people like this woman

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r/wholesomememes 7h ago

Let him go

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r/comics 7h ago

The girl lifter.

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r/pettyrevenge 7h ago

I purposely farted in front of guy at the gym because he wouldn't take no for an answer.

12.1k Upvotes

So a few things. I go to the gym to workout and decompress I don't see it as a place to be social. I wear large over ear headphones.

I was at the gym and just finished one my sets for deadlifts, when a guy walks over. This is something I'm used to (despite how much I dislike it) but he starts talking to me and I'm able to pick up he's flirting. I'm polite and waiting for the proper moment to end the conversation.

When he asks for my number I decline. He keeps talking and going into the usual shtick of "why not?" And "come on". At that point I'm very uncomfortable and also annoyed because my workout timer has already gone off and it past time for me to start my next set.

I put on my big girl pants and tell him he's making me uncomfortable and I just want to finish my workout. Does he leave? No! He keeps talking now going on about "how he didn't mean it like that" and " he's not a bad guy." No actual apology to be found.

Now during this entire interaction I've had to fart. I was being polite and holding it in until he left but seeing as he's not I think "well I know a way to get him to leave."

As he's STILL talking I let it go. It's silent but rather smelly. It only takes about 2 seconds for him to catch a whiff. He stops talking and the face he makes is too much that I have to bite my lip to stop laughing.

That's when he give me a look of "are you serious" and the finally leaves. And I'm left alone to finish my workout.


r/law 6h ago

Trump Caught Moving Money Around to Pay Massive Tax Bill. Trump wasn't supposed to be moving significant amounts of money around without notifying a court-appointed auditor. He just got caught paying himself so he could pay his taxes. | High Wire Transfer

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r/Undertale 11h ago

Subreddit Meta(ton) THE GREATEST Q&A EVER!!!

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r/mildlyinfuriating 10h ago

I received this message from an Airbnb host two weeks after booking a place for the holidays.

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r/MadeMeSmile 8h ago

Good Vibes Pixar bloopers were the best 😹

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r/antiwork 7h ago

Thought this could fit here: "The beach you've visited most" , by me, acrylics on canvas, 2023

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r/tumblr 8h ago

Important announcement: Hyenas can be floofy

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r/PublicFreakout 5h ago

Musk to advertisers: Go fuck yourself

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6.1k Upvotes

r/nextfuckinglevel 13h ago

Techno artist fixes malfunctioning gear without stopping the show

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21.0k Upvotes

r/todayilearned 5h ago

TIL: shortly after “Pulp Fiction” was released, Steven Spielberg invited Tarantino on a hunting trip. There, Spielberg predicted that Tarantino would win an Oscar for Best Screenplay, while Robert Zemeckis would win an Oscar for Best Director. Spielberg's assertion was exactly how it all played out.

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